Duties Included in Keeping the Heart
Flavel, John
(2010-08-03). Keeping the Heart. Kindle Edition.
1.
Frequent
observation of the frame of the heart.
The heart can never be kept until its case be examined and understood.
Proust wrote, “No man is a mystery, except to himself.”
How many times have you thought, “I can’t believe I did/said that!” Well, there ya go. We need to examine our hearts regularly. But we need help to do it well. We talk of being able to do all things
through Christ who is our strength. Well,
here’s one of the “all things” we avoid.
Means: Make a list.
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What makes you laugh? What makes you cry? What hurts you and provokes anger? What brings you satisfaction? What brings you security? What do you ache for? What do you fear?
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Which of those things are in line with your
profession – or not?
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Why?
2.
It
includes deep humiliation for heart evils and disorders.
OK, “humiliation” is a tough word – but it is also a good intervention
word. Flavel is talking about what you
may have just discovered in the above exercise.
These “evils” and “disorders” have to be robbed of their power in your
heart and the best way for that to happen is to lay them out before God.
Consider the sacrifice Christ made for those things. Consider how He did so to enable you to
humiliate them – to see and acknowledge their shameful presence in your
heart. BUT – do so ONLY if you are
firmly aware of the fact of God’s grace in your life.
This isn’t about beating yourself up.
It is about beating the bugs out of the rug – the evil and disorder out
of your heart. Denial is so easy and so
seeing becomes hard. Denial is so easy
and so dealing with evils and disorders is so messy. The longer the evil and disorder remains
denied the longer it works against your growth, stability and comfort.
I knew a man who after a year of literally living on OTC indigestion
medicine finally went to the doctor. To
his horror, he had stomach cancer and it was too late to really do anything
curative about it. So it is with the
evils and disorders that live in our hearts – though we are alive “in” Christ
these things make our hearts dead to Him.
They are like the veil in the Temple
were it to be repaired. We cannot fully
know the comfort and security of being His because of these things.
Means: From the list take the evils and disorders
you find to the throne of grace.
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Confess them and confess their hurtfulness to
your spiritual health.
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Ask God to help you to begin to remove
(humiliate) them.
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Ask Him where to start.
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Perhaps even keep a list in your wallet or purse
so that when you pray you can always have a reminder of your deep heart need
3.
It
includes earnest supplication and instant prayer for purifying and rectifying
grace when sin has defiled and disordered the heart. “Whatever thou deny me: give me a heart to
fear thee, to love and delight in thee.”
This is praying “for.” Above we
took the load to Him. Here we ask for
what we need, “purifying and rectifying grace.”
Means: Good ole regular and strong, “on your knees”
prayer.
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Make use of David’s prayers such as we find in
Psalm 23 and following.
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Make use of the recorded prayers of others as
can be found in the book, Puritan Prayers.
Thou hast struck a heavy blow at my
pride, at the false god of self, and I lie in pieces before Thee. But Thou hast
given me another master and lord, Thy Son, Jesus, and now my heart is turned
towards holiness, my life speeds as an arrow from a bow towards complete
obedience to Thee. Help me in all my doings to put down sin day. Grant me grace
to bear Thy will without repining, and delight to be not only chiselled,
squared, or fashioned, but separated from the old rock where I have been
embedded so long, and lifted from the quarry to the upper air, where I may be
built in Christ for ever. Anonymous
(2010-07-01). Puritan Prayers (Kindle Locations 105-110). . Kindle Edition.
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Write out your prayers.
4.
It
includes the imposing of strong engagements upon ourselves to walk more
carefully with God, and avoid the occasions whereby the heart may be induced to
sin.
This is head work. How do you
avoid those things which encourage, sustain or implant evils and disorders in
your mind? It is not only a matter of
what you decide to forego or abstain from, but a matter of what you will take
up, engage in and practice.
What will you choose to replace that which you find to your
detriment? How will you fill the
minutes, the hours? What will serve you
to your benefit and growth in godliness?
These are not “laws,” but choices.
These do not determine “if” you are His but rather “how” you are His and
how you give His Spirit the means and opportunity to heal, restore and
strengthen you. It can be as simple as
not watching a TV show to as complex of breaking off an relationship.
Where upon your path do you stumble?
What is it that you stumble over?
Who is it that is a stumbling block to you? These are the things concerning which you
need to make strong resolutions – choices.
Though God can use these things, He cannot bless them. Their use is limited to His conviction of
your heart. The blessing comes from
taking the medicine He prescribes.
Though the medicine taste bitter, even nasty, we know it is all and only
for our good and His glory.
Means: Make a list, pray about where to begin and
then begin. Do so being as gentle and
gracious with yourself as is He.
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Who
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What
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When
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Where
Choices have two ends: the choice to “not,” and the choice to “do.” As we choose to not we must choose to do. In that list, make a column of what will
replace that which you have marked for elimination. Prayer, study, fellowship with other
believers, worship – all these are good and godly replacements.
Our modern age supplies us with countless opportunities for choosing good
things (as it does for evil). I know
that when all else fails I listen to sermons by Alistair Begg or read books written
by one of the Puritans. These choices
may not be for you, they are but two options.
5.
It
includes a constant and holy jealousy over our own hearts. He that will keep his heart must eat and drink
with fear, rejoice with fear, and pass the whole time of his sojourning here in
fear. All this is little enough to keep the heart from sin.
This is a choice as well. You must
choose to save your heart for God and godly things and resent that which works
against it.
You who are fathers – would you have less concern for your heart as you would
for the safety and purity of your children – your daughter? You mothers, would you feed your newborn from
a dirty bottle? Young people, would you
allow harm and evil to come to your dearest friends? So, as you would wish yourself to be in
regards to these who are so dear to you – be so to your own heart.
Pray to live knowing that it is not only your heart, but it is His as
well. Think of the price He has paid so
you might walk after Him in security and confidence. Would you cheat on one who was so dedicated
to you, who had given so much for you?
Consider those times when someone you considered close shunned or
betrayed you – what was that pain like?
Or think of something in which or of which you place great meaning. Would you allow someone to damage or destroy
it? Are you cautious about who uses it –
perhaps even who sees it? What greater
meaning can any “thing” have than the redemption of your heart and His promise
of His provision?
It is not sin to be selfish with your heart which He has redeemed. It is sin to allow it to be used and abused,
tarnished or torn by sin and the agents of sin.
We may give our hearts to others through Him but for no other reason
than His service.
Means: Who or what would draw your heart from you –
from Him? They have no such right, no
such authority.
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Keep your heart from their influence and
certainly from their grasp.
6.
It
includes the realizing of God’s presence with us, and setting the Lord always
before us.
This well could have been the first on the list for it is certainly the
most important. The old quip that
“character is what a man is when no one is watching,” is not off the mark.
God is always watching – and He knows our suffering and
difficulties. He knows our grief. He knows our needs. He knows our weakness.
He wants His highest good for our lives here as well as in heaven.
It is hard to really understand, but true that God is our truest
friend. He will never forsake or abandon
us. He is always at work for our
betterment in His grace and glory.
He is the one who can not only search our hearts, but heal them and
strengthen them as well.
Urged by my need, invited by Thy
promises, called by Thy Spirit, I enter Thy presence, worshipping Thee with
godly fear, awed by Thy majesty, greatness, glory, but encouraged by Thy love. Anonymous (2010-07-01). Puritan
Prayers (Kindle Locations 121-122). .
Kindle Edition.
Bless me by revealing to me more of His
saving merits, by causing Thy goodness to pass before me, by speaking peace to
my contrite heart; strengthen me to give Thee no rest untiI Christ shall reign
supreme within me in every thought, word, and deed, in a faith that purifies
the heart, overcomes the world, works by love, fastens me to Thee, and ever
clings to the cross. Anonymous (2010-07-01). Puritan Prayers (Kindle Locations 125-128). . Kindle Edition.
